"Each new generation born is in effect an invasion of civilization by little barbarians, who must be civilized before it is too late."
I love the above quote free marketeer Thomas Sowell. It was quoted this week in an article from the Wall Street journal detailing why the article's author, Tony Woodlief, chose to home school his children.
It turned out to be a decent article describing the difference between utopian liberal ideas and restrained conservative ones. By making this contrast she excoriates the thought of those who eschew discipline in order to let their children express themselves by labeling them as liberal Utopians. His primary objective is to advocate discipline in order to tame the invasion of the barbarians. I agree with his simple point on the need for discipline and again love the quote above. I also have a good laugh at the Dr. Benjamin Spock quote she cites in which Spock said, "I can hardly bear to be around rude children. I have the impulse to spank them, and to give a lecture to their parents."
However, I think she confuses classical Utopian liberalism with Post-modernism on the subject of humans conditioning other humans. In other words she appears to have her political ideologies and definitions crossed.
For Jean-Jacques Rousseau, one of the most influential liberal thinkers in history, the purpose of government was not to do the will of the people but rather to maintain liberty which for him was roughly equivalent to equality. I think it's especially helpful to contrast Rousseau's concept of liberty with that of Thomas Jefferson. For any type of liberty to thrive somebody's rights have to be limited. For example, my liberty to drive on the highway at 120mph must be restrained in order not to impinge on another's liberty to drive on the same highway without the fear of death. While for Jefferson, liberty primarily meant the freedom of individuals from government's restraint and only secondarily from other individual's restraint, for Rousseau liberty primarily meant the freedom of individuals from other individual's restraint and only secondarily from the government's restraint. To put it another way, for Jefferson, the best society was one in which individuals restrained government from restraining individuals. For Rousseau, the best society was one in which government restrained individuals from restraining other individuals.
As you read again that last sentence again, I know what you're thinking: "Sounds like Post-modernism to me!" But it wasn't yet and here's why. Rousseau’s signature, and most famous, quote about man being born free but everywhere in chains is in fact the ironic, though surely unforeseen, result of his liberal experiment. To free some, they put others in chains and end up perpetuating the cycle of violence. In Rousseau's case, government restraint, even a government with the noble goals of liberty, ended up manifesting itself in the form of the Reign of terror. Another example of government imposition to engineer the perfect society could be the Spanish Inquisition. Another could be the classic case of Hitler’s bitterness over the post WWI situation in Germany and thus his seeking utopia for the German people while “enslaving” another. Then the victors, as if to rectify the situation created a land in Palestine for these and other Jews with the ideal of “freedom” which only ends up starting a new cycle of violence by displaced Palestinians. If we attempt to rectify that situation, we only create more injustice by unsettling settled second and third generation Israelis. It seems that every time we try to do justice we end up creating more injustice. Every time we try to create liberty or "space" for one, we end up restraining liberty and impinging upon another. Is there any way to break the cycle?
Because I’m not a parent quite yet, I tend to first look at the political rather than parental side. The classical liberal experiment is indeed not all it was cracked up to be (another reason to vote for Ron Paul!). Giuliani (not to mention Bush, other neocons, Hillary and Edwards) certainly feel they are justified in “breaking a few million eggs while making the human omelet” to quote the article. But then again so were Hitler & Mussolini. That is the nature of Orwell’s Big Brother. Liberty as equality and peace for everyone ends up creating injustice in the process.
In a sense you can equate the “Utopians”, as the article calls them, with the Modernist/Enlightenment/Classical Liberal mindset who thought reason & science were the answer to all our problems and the “Realists”, as the article calls them, with the Post-Modern/Classical Conservative mindset who realized the mistake of the Moderns but overreacted by enthroning individualism and greed as the only viable modus operandi. Liberal utopia is a very different place than Post-modern reality. I can’t put myself firmly in either camp but I can say this: I think neither view completely captures the best picture but I think there are important characteristics that I take from both. Combine the hope of the Moderns with the humility of the Post-Moderns and you get what I’d like to call my position. You can call me a “Hopeful Realist”. This middle stance is especially formative for my view on the choice between public schooling and private/home-schooling to get back to subject of the Wall Street Journal article.
Whether we like it or not, the situation we find ourselves in (in American at least) is a failing public school system designed by a utopia-minded government intent on providing an education to all. With this failure in mind, I’m certainly not for enslaving others by raising taxes to supposedly “free” their children’s minds through public education. But, neither am I for giving up and saying “flee with your kids while you still can” while the ship continues to sink as so many of the best parents have done and continue to do. The ship of the public school system is certainly sinking and while I am not for essentially polishing the brass on the Titanic by pouring more money into the system, I am for pouring more good parents into the system. I am for Christians pouring themselves out (with allusions to Jesus pouring himself out for us) for the children who stand there staring at us from the Titanic as we float away in rafts.
When dealt defeats such as loss of the freedom of assembly to pray in schools, the politically correct culture, the drug culture, and the poor quality of education in our schools, Christians have simply retreated into foxholes and allowed the system to tumble farther. Now, imagine for a second, a flood of Christian parents pouring their hearts and souls back into the public school system, back into PTA meetings, back into curriculum committees and board of education meetings. Imagine if the best parents in America, were to have a vested interest in the public school system. Instead we quickly bailed from the ship and said, "Women and children first my ass! Me and my progeny are getting off this thing!" They can literally go to hell for all we care.
In the end, I believe it takes a parent to raise a child and I resonate strongly with Dr. Spock’s quote. But no matter how hard we try, whether we notice it or not, whether we like it or not “the village” that is culture will end up being a large part of what shapes our children. I’m neither for a totalitarian Utopian village nor for shielding our children from the village, but rather pouring ourselves out as an offering for the village and into the village.
How’s that for an idealistic essay! Just wait till I get a rude awakening as a parent of a real child!